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about how I survive 3 weeks without a mobile phone and the many days to come.
The Story
Three weeks ago, my dad was here in London for a course sent by the government.
Something about justice. That is all that I can remember. I went to London with
a friend to meet him on a Sunday and that afternoon, as I was walking with him
back to Brunei Hall, my friend texted so get my phone from my pocket and texted
back. Then, my phone slipped and fell into a small puddle. To assure you, it was a
dry sunny day and it was the only puddle that I came across that day. My phone
was floating and I thought at that moment. "it's dead". I was right.

The Problem
Mobile
phones in UK are a lot more expensive than in Brunei so I asked my parents to
buy one. Since my relative is coming, I asked to post it to me but after my
parents bought the phone my relative's visit was cancelled. Now I'm relying on
my mom's friend who should be in UK this week or next week but still unsure
when is it going to reach me. Getting really impatient lately but i'm doing
fine.
As an
alternative to phone, I turn to;
ü Facebook Chat
ü Blogging
ü Friend's Phone
ü Skype
ü My Asus tablet
Alarm Clock : Tab and ipod. Yes I have to sleep with my tablet every night
because of my fear that the tab can slip from the bedside table ( after I broke
my phone, I broke my glasses because of this ). Or ask a friend to wake me up for Subuh or school.
Contact
friends: Facebook is the place to go. I was never this active in Facebook
before but my friends are a bit busy right now with their exams that I didn't
really have anyone to chat with most of the time. Twitter is useful too although I don't really tweet much anymore.
Share
stories: So I have a lot of stories and I turn to blogging to blab about
things.
Call Parents : My friends' phone but of course using my own calling card and Skype
every weekend. Now I can call my parents for free in Brunei Hall. That is one of the reason to love Brunei Hall.
Listen to
music: When I have a fast working internet, I turn to YouTube. If I don't, I'll just use my Ipod.
Camera: I rely on my friends to take pictures for me if I want one. This a problem sometimes.
The Habit
I found an article from CNN that asked. 'Do you obsessively check your mobile phone?'. After my phone broke, sometimes there were times when I forgot that I broke it and every now and then try to find it. I try finding it on my pockets, handbags or under the bed. This might be the case from the article that said that I might be a habitual checker. Your hands will feel itchy to hold your phone at least an hour after you put it away.
The CNN author's story;
"(CNN) -- There I was at a long-awaited dinner with friends Saturday night, when in the midst of our chatting, I watched my right hand sneaking away from my side to grab my phone sitting on the table to check my e-mail.
"What am I doing?" I thought to myself. "I'm here with my friends, and I don't need to be checking e-mail on a Saturday night."
The part that freaked me out was that I hadn't told my hand to reach out for the phone. It seemed to be doing it all on its own. I wondered what was wrong with me until I read a recent study in the journal Personal and Ubiquitous Computing that showed I'm hardly alone. In fact, my problem seems to be ubiquitous."
From the article there are only three ways to get rid of this problem
- Acknowledge that you have a problem - "We can be conscious of the habit of checking. We can unlearn its habits," says Sherry Turkle, a psychologist at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and director of the MIT Initiative on Technology and Self.
- Have smartphone free times.
- Have smartphone free places
But at the moment my biggest desire is to get my new mobile phone quick. I hope it'll be here soon.
